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About Mx. Love C. Dialogos, LMFT | Love Psychotherapy

About the practice

You deserve a therapist who has actually been somewhere.

Love Psychotherapy is a queer-owned, neurodivergent-owned telehealth practice offering affirming therapy across 13 states.

Mx. Love C. Dialogos, LMFT: therapist and founder of Love Psychotherapy

Direct contact

Phone773.219.0628

Fax833.943.1362

AK 256982 · AZ LMFT-16225 · FL MT5082 · HI 996 · ID 7981218 · IL 166.001613 · IN 35002461A · MI 4101007454 · NM CTB-2025-0776 · NY 002307 · OH F.2400451 · TX 205753 · WI 1417-124

Your therapist

Mx. Love C. Dialogos, LMFT

They/Them

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist | Buddhist Chaplain

I came to this work through my own experience of being a person who didn't fit the categories that were handed to me: queer, neurodivergent, and raised in systems that weren't built with people like me in mind. That history shapes how I show up in the room.

My clinical approach draws from Buddhist psychology, Accelerated Experiential Dynamic Psychotherapy (AEDP), and family systems theory. I'm interested in what happens in the body, in the nervous system, and in the relational field between us: what you feel when you're in your situation as well as what you think about it.

I work with individuals and couples navigating identity, late diagnosis, religious trauma, family estrangement, grief, and the particular exhaustion of being misread by the people and systems around you. I also provide clinical supervision for pre-licensed therapists seeking an affirming, rigorous supervisory relationship.

Mx. Love C. Dialogos is also the artist behind every illustration and worksheet on this site.

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Clinical approach

Therapy that meets your actual nervous system.

Traditional Western psychotherapy was never designed for neurodivergent, queer, or multiply-marginalized people. My work integrates Buddhist psychology, somatic awareness, and relational neuroscience: because skills alone are not enough. You need new experiences alongside new concepts.

Bottom-up before top-down

The body holds what the mind can't yet name. We start with sensation, nervous system state, and felt experience: then move toward meaning.

Neurodivergence as difference, not deficit

Autism, ADHD, and AuDHD are not disorders to be corrected. They are different ways of processing a world that was built for someone else.

Identity is not pathology

Queerness, gender expansiveness, non-monogamy, and kink are not clinical problems. Therapy should affirm who you are, not explain it away.

Directness as care

I don't talk around things. You're paying for what I see, and I'll tell you right away. Expect to be uncomfortable early, in exchange for getting somewhere faster.

Training and licensure

Qualifications

LicenseLicensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT): licensed in 13 states
ChaplaincyBuddhist Chaplain: Plum Village tradition, 24-year practice
SupervisionAAMFT-Approved Supervisor: clinical supervision for pre-licensed therapists
ModalitiesAEDP, Buddhist psychology, family systems, somatic approaches, IFS-informed, narrative therapy

Education

Edgewood College

Master of Science in Marriage and Family Therapy

Madison, WI

Writing

My Books

Beyond the therapy room, I write literary fiction and clinical nonfiction, including the books I couldn't find when I needed them.

A note before you scroll: These are my own creative and clinical-writing projects: sold and reviewed through Amazon, Goodreads, and my personal author site, entirely separate from Love Psychotherapy and from anything to do with your care here. You're never expected to read, buy, or engage with either book, and clicking through doesn't connect to your treatment in any way. If you're a current client and something in one of them resonates, I'd welcome hearing about it in session: but that's the only place it belongs.

Relationship Styles: An Experiential Guide to Relational Dynamics | Mx. Love C. Dialogos, LMFT

Clinical Nonfiction · Relational Dynamics · Buddhist Psychology

Relationship Styles

An Experiential Guide to Relational Dynamics

Drawing on clinical practice, anthropology, systems theory, and Buddhist psychology, this book introduces original frameworks: Story Swapping, Neurodivergent Orbital Dynamics, the Double Empathy Problem applied to romantic and family systems: as lenses to pick up, use, and set back down when they've done their work, rather than as diagnoses to be assigned.

"I am no expert. I am a witness to what is."

Coming soon · Print & EbookCompanion Worksheets · Included

Ready to work together?

I don't do consultations; but this page should give you enough to know if we're a fit. If you're ready, reach out.

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