by Love Dialogos | Jul 4, 2026 | Blog
Many people look for ways to bring mindfulness, deep self-awareness, and emotional balance into their personal therapy. However, it can be hard to know how to use these concepts practically without getting lost in vague spirituality or self-help platitudes. When done...
by Autistic Fruitcake | Feb 24, 2025 | Blog
Finding Love/Relational substance is the ticket. That’s after the honeymoon period/infatuation period. Typically 2-6 months. Subsequently you’ll know if you begin to notice the individual(s) perceived “flaws.” Whereas you never seemed to notice...
by Autistic Fruitcake | Jul 30, 2024 | Blog
Ok…. So my grandmother never had long hair and no one said she wasn’t “lady like.” Hair is just hair.. It doesn’t equate to gender. I get frustrated when I hear folx wanting me to or others have long hair or short hair, shave or not...
by Autistic Fruitcake | Apr 16, 2024 | Blog
Complete control over anything is illusory. Our version of humanoid is around 285K years old give or take. Around 12,000 + years ago, many species of humans lived and even overlapped. With the development of language via the evolution of our version of humanoid...
by Autistic Fruitcake | Feb 11, 2024 | Blog
I find this topic fascinating for many reasons. I have training in gender and sex therapy. Intrinsically, identity work comes into play with most of the lovely humans I help. At least in the west, it appears most identities are heavily steeped in gender as an origin....
by Autistic Fruitcake | Feb 9, 2024 | Video
by Autistic Fruitcake | Jan 29, 2024 | Blog
Being non-monosexual (liking more than one type of human) has been confusing for a lot of folx in my life. Inherently being queer is going to be and is a minority group in every species that lives in a binary structure. Monosexuals at times, have such a difficult time...
by Autistic Fruitcake | Jan 24, 2024 | Blog
So this is a little broad and loaded. In my clinical work as a psychotherapist and sex therapist, I’m often asked to, “Meet people where they’re at.” Now that’s Tri-faceted, with many sub-facets depending on context 1) Biological,...
