by Autistic Fruitcake | Jul 30, 2024 | Blog
Ok…. So my grandmother never had long hair and no one said she wasn’t “lady like.” Hair is just hair.. It doesn’t equate to gender. I get frustrated when I hear folx wanting me to or others have long hair or short hair, shave or not...
by Jen Peterson | Jul 18, 2024 | Blog
All sorts of receipts, bills, flyers, catalogs, letters, advertisements, lists, and scraps of paper float into our lives. It may seem like no big deal when we choose to hang on to a piece. Maybe it is significant or sentimental, and the desire to hang on to it makes...
by Autistic Fruitcake | Apr 16, 2024 | Blog
Complete control over anything is illusory. Our version of humanoid is around 285K years old give or take. Around 12,000 + years ago, many species of humans lived and even overlapped. With the development of language via the evolution of our version of humanoid...
by Autistic Fruitcake | Feb 11, 2024 | Blog
I find this topic fascinating for many reasons. I have training in gender and sex therapy. Intrinsically, identity work comes into play with most of the lovely humans I help. At least in the west, it appears most identities are heavily steeped in gender as an origin....
by Autistic Fruitcake | Feb 9, 2024 | Video
by Autistic Fruitcake | Jan 29, 2024 | Blog
Being non-monosexual (liking more than one type of human) has been confusing for a lot of folx in my life. Inherently being queer is going to be and is a minority group in every species that lives in a binary structure. Monosexuals at times, have such a difficult time...
by Autistic Fruitcake | Jan 24, 2024 | Blog
So this is a little broad and loaded. In my clinical work as a psychotherapist and sex therapist, I’m often asked to, “Meet people where they’re at.” Now that’s Tri-faceted, with many sub-facets depending on context 1) Biological,...
